One gets success if he just succeed the failures. Then what failure means? The result that makes one unpleasant is failure. It means that not only the person who has lost everything is a failure person but also the person who doesn’t get better result of what he had expected.
What is the secret of success. It is making right decisions. How to make right decisions? It comes by experience. How do you get experience? Only after making wrong decisions. This sounds funny but it’s true.
I will suggest you some ideas to get over failures. Grab a paper and pencil. Writing it down is the better way to get clarity.
First of all, you have to be sure of your goal, whether it’s a short term like learning music or something or a long term goal i.e., career. If you haven’t set any goal yet, make that as your first goal. Create your own path i.e., goal and leave the trail. Let others follow you.
Clarity is the key:-
Now you have set the goal. For eg, Learning C program is your short term goal. It is time for now to prepare how to accomplish this goal. You have got some clarity. i.e, You very well know what you want exactly. Now set the time period of 40 days to finish this goal.
Fire –aim process:-
It is the time management that comes to you first. Write down the daily routines and fix 90 minutes for your goal everyday. It is this time where you gonna work to accomplish the goal and not by thinking else. You may not know how to proceed thro’ the goal. i.e, how to study this programming language with only a freak book? It is this fire aim process should be pursued. Just give it a shot.i.e, make an attempt of going thro’ that goal instead of doing nothing else. Always remember something is always better than nothing. Most people fails in aim fire process. Because they stuck up on the first step itself. They simply spend their time lavishly in aiming aim, aim…. Instead fire. Give a shot. Now you know some precision to your goal. Then aim for the goal.
Fix your goal, be flexible in your plans:-
Planning the day and following thro’ it is as important as fixing the goal. Fix our goal firmly. Execute it by planning but be flexible in it. You may not pursue your plan as you schedule. There may be unavoidable circumstances that could deviate your plan. Be flexible in it. A goal is simply accomplished by
Work(goal) = Time spent X Intensity of focus
accomplished
Managing the time and concentration that you give matters a lot to accomplish the goal.
Stop thinking what to do and do it.
